Monday, 13 April 2015



                            Something is to cure ,not to suppress the choices

Last night i was returning to  room from college  after attaining the cultural fest of 2015 . Night was dark but not that much dreadful as the girl who left college campus right with the same time, was getting afraid off. I have been walking through these grisly nights from last two years like a wandering spirit    ,never frightened me before as today .Girl was following me like a monster ,as i increased my speed she lagged  behind  for a while and then again strive to reach parallel to me and keep walking .I further increased my speed ,she again did the same thing .i began to feel insecure ,to relieved  myself i just take out my phone and start gaming . While the time ,she keeps  walking parallel to me ,I sweaten ,heart beats exceeded  72 per minute  within 5 seconds ,neither she says what she wants  nor she stop following ,for a while i began to feel that there is a need of man empowerment in the country . After having 15 minutes walk with a strange girl ,parallel in a dark night  finally came to an end .she took her road for her hostel and i was left alone  breathless ,it took 5 minutes in normalising my heart beat and thanked god for leaving me survived . Later i began to evaluate why actually girl was doing this .Was she judging whether i get afraid of her this abnormal behaviour or she was playing a conspiracy game .But the fact was something else .As time was too nightly ,might be  she was afraid of  vagrant dogs ,wild cats  or perverts of society . But if it was the reason then why she would  have stayed so late at the fest .Perhaps she might have inspired by Deepika's my choice documentary  of women empowerment ,and took it unconsciously,  which might she later realised   the choices of dogs ,wild cats  ,snakes and led  her to get a company of mine .
                                                             Women empowerment doesn't mean to fulfil the choices ,but to statute  the women   socially ,democratically ,psychologically  by enhancing equal  opportunities .Provisions given in the constitution are equal for all men and women ,only the thing is that they are not being exercised by women because of unawareness ,less education  and some restricted domain of society. Certain rules that being set by society are to cure women, not to suppress their choices and freedom. Such regulatory rules of society cannot   be denied.we want equality ,equality in procuring equal seats in  education institutions ,service sector,parliamentary sessions and other emerging sectors whether they are social,economic or socio-economic .This can be done by upgrading the current status of women ,correcting the restricted domain of society for their welfares ,spreading awareness about their rights ,not by exciting them to express their sexual choices.
                        Looking to the rapist ,murderer  ,sexual harassment convictions  ,these are the perverts of society not only to women community .when a girl being raped ,it threatens both men as well as women .These days every where ,whether it is digital media ,newspapers  social websites , ..all are delivering the messages which are very painful for the society .Many documentaries released  are exaggerating things to the exent that creating human imbalance in between the men and women . Women began to synchronize their mind to hate male, because of the perverts, who threatening their lives which should not be actually done .But this is a problem with all . conviction of rape ,molestation   of females ,do affect even  male also .Victims of rape ,molested girl or women are daughters of father ,sisters of brothers ,friends of their surrounding guys ,girlfriends of their boys ,niece of uncles .Men and women both are essential to each other ,their mutual coordination could only drive the society .Aside all the rapist of the country ,thousands of us are always there for for you to save from these perverts of the society. Don’t lose yur faith and taking feminism in most unexpected and unaccepted manner .feminism is fight against man's violence not against male community.

Recent  released video "my choice "is nothing but giving  misogynist therapy to men  and taking feminism in most hatred manner by women  which could  only reveals very painful situation for  society. Replies in correspondence of "my choice" from other side are  expressing anger in form of "his choice"  cannot be exempted just as a hilarious act ,but it too conveys a message that creating nothing, but hate among men and women  .Today's contemporary world is world about equality ,peace ,justice  which  demanding a coordination of every class ,community, religion ,nations to come together to upgrade the society to next level .this cannot be reached without women empowerment ,but in a sensible way .

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