Monday, 13 April 2015



                            Something is to cure ,not to suppress the choices

Last night i was returning to  room from college  after attaining the cultural fest of 2015 . Night was dark but not that much dreadful as the girl who left college campus right with the same time, was getting afraid off. I have been walking through these grisly nights from last two years like a wandering spirit    ,never frightened me before as today .Girl was following me like a monster ,as i increased my speed she lagged  behind  for a while and then again strive to reach parallel to me and keep walking .I further increased my speed ,she again did the same thing .i began to feel insecure ,to relieved  myself i just take out my phone and start gaming . While the time ,she keeps  walking parallel to me ,I sweaten ,heart beats exceeded  72 per minute  within 5 seconds ,neither she says what she wants  nor she stop following ,for a while i began to feel that there is a need of man empowerment in the country . After having 15 minutes walk with a strange girl ,parallel in a dark night  finally came to an end .she took her road for her hostel and i was left alone  breathless ,it took 5 minutes in normalising my heart beat and thanked god for leaving me survived . Later i began to evaluate why actually girl was doing this .Was she judging whether i get afraid of her this abnormal behaviour or she was playing a conspiracy game .But the fact was something else .As time was too nightly ,might be  she was afraid of  vagrant dogs ,wild cats  or perverts of society . But if it was the reason then why she would  have stayed so late at the fest .Perhaps she might have inspired by Deepika's my choice documentary  of women empowerment ,and took it unconsciously,  which might she later realised   the choices of dogs ,wild cats  ,snakes and led  her to get a company of mine .
                                                             Women empowerment doesn't mean to fulfil the choices ,but to statute  the women   socially ,democratically ,psychologically  by enhancing equal  opportunities .Provisions given in the constitution are equal for all men and women ,only the thing is that they are not being exercised by women because of unawareness ,less education  and some restricted domain of society. Certain rules that being set by society are to cure women, not to suppress their choices and freedom. Such regulatory rules of society cannot   be denied.we want equality ,equality in procuring equal seats in  education institutions ,service sector,parliamentary sessions and other emerging sectors whether they are social,economic or socio-economic .This can be done by upgrading the current status of women ,correcting the restricted domain of society for their welfares ,spreading awareness about their rights ,not by exciting them to express their sexual choices.
                        Looking to the rapist ,murderer  ,sexual harassment convictions  ,these are the perverts of society not only to women community .when a girl being raped ,it threatens both men as well as women .These days every where ,whether it is digital media ,newspapers  social websites , ..all are delivering the messages which are very painful for the society .Many documentaries released  are exaggerating things to the exent that creating human imbalance in between the men and women . Women began to synchronize their mind to hate male, because of the perverts, who threatening their lives which should not be actually done .But this is a problem with all . conviction of rape ,molestation   of females ,do affect even  male also .Victims of rape ,molested girl or women are daughters of father ,sisters of brothers ,friends of their surrounding guys ,girlfriends of their boys ,niece of uncles .Men and women both are essential to each other ,their mutual coordination could only drive the society .Aside all the rapist of the country ,thousands of us are always there for for you to save from these perverts of the society. Don’t lose yur faith and taking feminism in most unexpected and unaccepted manner .feminism is fight against man's violence not against male community.

Recent  released video "my choice "is nothing but giving  misogynist therapy to men  and taking feminism in most hatred manner by women  which could  only reveals very painful situation for  society. Replies in correspondence of "my choice" from other side are  expressing anger in form of "his choice"  cannot be exempted just as a hilarious act ,but it too conveys a message that creating nothing, but hate among men and women  .Today's contemporary world is world about equality ,peace ,justice  which  demanding a coordination of every class ,community, religion ,nations to come together to upgrade the society to next level .this cannot be reached without women empowerment ,but in a sensible way .


                            Something is to cure ,not to suppress the choices

Last night i was returning to  room from college  after attaining the cultural fest of 2015 . Night was dark but not that much dreadful as the girl who left college campus right with the same time, was getting afraid off. I have been walking through these grisly nights from last two years like a wandering spirit    ,never frightened me before as today .Girl was following me like a monster ,as i increased my speed she lagged  behind  for a while and then again strive to reach parallel to me and keep walking .I further increased my speed ,she again did the same thing .i began to feel insecure ,to relieved  myself i just take out my phone and start gaming . While the time ,she keeps  walking parallel to me ,I sweaten ,heart beats exceeded  72 per minute  within 5 seconds ,neither she says what she wants  nor she stop following ,for a while i began to feel that there is a need of man empowerment in the country . After having 15 minutes walk with a strange girl ,parallel in a dark night  finally came to an end .she took her road for her hostel and i was left alone  breathless ,it took 5 minutes in normalising my heart beat and thanked god for leaving me survived . Later i began to evaluate why actually girl was doing this .Was she judging whether i get afraid of her this abnormal behaviour or she was playing a conspiracy game .But the fact was something else .As time was too nightly ,might be  she was afraid of  vagrant dogs ,wild cats  or perverts of society . But if it was the reason then why she would  have stayed so late at the fest .Perhaps she might have inspired by Deepika's my choice documentary  of women empowerment ,and took it unconsciously,  which might she later realised   the choices of dogs ,wild cats  ,snakes and led  her to get a company of mine .
                                                             Women empowerment doesn't mean to fulfil the choices ,but to statute  the women   socially ,democratically ,psychologically  by enhancing equal  opportunities .Provisions given in the constitution are equal for all men and women ,only the thing is that they are not being exercised by women because of unawareness ,less education  and some restricted domain of society. Certain rules that being set by society are to cure women, not to suppress their choices and freedom. Such regulatory rules of society cannot   be denied.we want equality ,equality in procuring equal seats in  education institutions ,service sector,parliamentary sessions and other emerging sectors whether they are social,economic or socio-economic .This can be done by upgrading the current status of women ,correcting the restricted domain of society for their welfares ,spreading awareness about their rights ,not by exciting them to express their sexual choices.
                        Looking to the rapist ,murderer  ,sexual harassment convictions  ,these are the perverts of society not only to women community .when a girl being raped ,it threatens both men as well as women .These days every where ,whether it is digital media ,newspapers  social websites , ..all are delivering the messages which are very painful for the society .Many documentaries released  are exaggerating things to the exent that creating human imbalance in between the men and women . Women began to synchronize their mind to hate male, because of the perverts, who threatening their lives which should not be actually done .But this is a problem with all . conviction of rape ,molestation   of females ,do affect even  male also .Victims of rape ,molested girl or women are daughters of father ,sisters of brothers ,friends of their surrounding guys ,girlfriends of their boys ,niece of uncles .Men and women both are essential to each other ,their mutual coordination could only drive the society .Aside all the rapist of the country ,thousands of us are always there for for you to save from these perverts of the society. Don’t lose yur faith and taking feminism in most unexpected and unaccepted manner .feminism is fight against man's violence not against male community.

Recent  released video "my choice "is nothing but giving  misogynist therapy to men  and taking feminism in most hatred manner by women  which could  only reveals very painful situation for  society. Replies in correspondence of "my choice" from other side are  expressing anger in form of "his choice"  cannot be exempted just as a hilarious act ,but it too conveys a message that creating nothing, but hate among men and women  .Today's contemporary world is world about equality ,peace ,justice  which  demanding a coordination of every class ,community, religion ,nations to come together to upgrade the society to next level .this cannot be reached without women empowerment ,but in a sensible way .

Friday, 27 March 2015

                           What actually the life is .  How it can be sustained .

Thousands of stories being told before this ,this can also be one of them . What actually life is ,what does struggle mean . How to became a hero as every one wants to be .  These are the immaterial questions that we face every day. Life is nothing but a well, where person who is at the top can breathe well, hence sustain well. This is the basic psychology which every one of us owning at the time.   Getting to top most position, however has been made a medium to sustain in today's world. To get that we are crushing each other ,competing ,hiding our moral  values ,we are using others shoulder to get to the top .Some of us are looking for staircase in the well that could lead to top .Some of us are doing nothing ,just left every thing on destiny . So the scenario in the well can be imagined, where there is a lot of rush, people are tempting to get to better place by any means.   But a very few are thinking  to get all of us out and breathe well .They are searching water bores from where they can fill the well and take out each of us from the  well  .For that they keeping them self at the  bottom ,searching for bores ,doing immensive handwork ,to give life ,a human life to every one . A well has a unique construction ,the staircase being provided are limit to certain height ,so those who are thinking to get out through staircase can upgrade themselves to certain height but couldn't reach out of the well . Those who are using others shoulder too can never reach to the top .They are very prone to get fall as they are standing on a poor foundation, where there are a lot of fluctuations that could never lead them to concentrate on their job .  Third are the one who are doing nothing ,just sitting and waiting for the destiny to take them out  whose probability is poorest  of all the rest .  Fourth who are searching for a bore  facing hardships as they are at bottom  ,who are not thinking  for themselves but for others ,they can reach to the top ,they can fill the whole well with water through which capable people can get out of the well and breathe .  They can only become the hero. 
These persons are no one  else but  a entrepreneur ,a social activist ,a motivational writer...,leader  or politician ,nationalist ,these  are the people who can create a bore in terms of scopes ,opportunities, hopes  which are beneficiary to all of us .
So   try to be an entrepreneur  if yu are well skilled .
Awake yur socialism ,yur passion to help out others .
Motivate the depressive minds, if yu have power of words.
Be a leader if yu want to work for nation .
Be a nationalist if yur blood bleed when yu hear India has lost.

Passion can change the life of yurs as well as of others.
                           What actually the life is .  How it can be sustained .

Thousands of stories being told before this ,this can also be one of them . What actually life is ,what does struggle mean . How to became a hero as every one wants to be .  These are the immaterial questions that we face every day. Life is nothing but a well, where person who is at the top can breathe well, hence sustain well. This is the basic psychology which every one of us owning at the time.   Getting to top most position, however has been made a medium to sustain in today's world. To get that we are crushing each other ,competing ,hiding our moral  values ,we are using others shoulder to get to the top .Some of us are looking for staircase in the well that could lead to top .Some of us are doing nothing ,just left every thing on destiny . So the scenario in the well can be imagined, where there is a lot of rush, people are tempting to get to better place by any means.   But a very few are thinking  to get all of us out and breathe well .They are searching water bores from where they can fill the well and take out each of us from the  well  .For that they keeping them self at the  bottom ,searching for bores ,doing immensive handwork ,to give life ,a human life to every one . A well has a unique construction ,the staircase being provided are limit to certain height ,so those who are thinking to get out through staircase can upgrade themselves to certain height but couldn't reach out of the well . Those who are using others shoulder too can never reach to the top .They are very prone to get fall as they are standing on a poor foundation, where there are a lot of fluctuations that could never lead them to concentrate on their job .  Third are the one who are doing nothing ,just sitting and waiting for the destiny to take them out  whose probability is poorest  of all the rest .  Fourth who are searching for a bore  facing hardships as they are at bottom  ,who are not thinking  for themselves but for others ,they can reach to the top ,they can fill the whole well with water through which capable people can get out of the well and breathe .  They can only become the hero. 
These persons are no one  else but  a entrepreneur ,a social activist ,a motivational writer...,leader  or politician ,nationalist ,these  are the people who can create a bore in terms of scopes ,opportunities, hopes  which are beneficiary to all of us .
So   try to be an entrepreneur  if yu are well skilled .
Awake yur socialism ,yur passion to help out others .
Motivate the depressive minds, if yu have power of words.
Be a leader if yu want to work for nation .
Be a nationalist if yur blood bleed when yu hear India has lost.

Passion can change the life of yurs as well as of others.

Tuesday, 23 December 2014

  

  

 आराध्य हो तुम ,तुम भी हो किसी के जिने की तमन्ना...
    
नीले आसमां के तले , तुम गीत कोई गुनगुनाए जाओ    
हरी बगीय़ा के बीच बैठ कोई, राग भौंरो का गाए जाओ ।
क्रतिम दुनिय़ा मे  काटों से बचकर फूलों की भाँति खिलखिलाए जाओ ।
य़े जिंदगी है रस भरी  , तुम मन्द-मन्द मुस्कुराए जाओ  ।

सीखर से उतर रही धरोहर , बिना कीसी की परवाह किये
छल- छल छलकता नीर ,असीम आनंद लिय़े
शिकाय़त हजार है,चट्टानो से ,पर उसी से अपनी एक पहचान लिय़े
निकल पडा हीम पर्वत छोड , विशाल समंदर से आलिंगन के  लिय़े ।

चन्द्र की गोलाई देखो, मानचित्रों से सजी  बडी है
कभी मुस्कुराता चेहरा ,तो कभी शक्ल किसी की मुरजाई पडी है।
चन्द्र रोए या हंसे, किसको उसके अध्यात्म की पडी है !!!!!!!!
सर्वत्र  जगमगाए शीत चाँदनी से,ऐसी आश हमेशा लगी पडी है

रोशन कर अपने मन को ,असीम आनंद उठाए जाओ
य़े जिंदगी है रस भरी  , तुम मन्द-मन्द मुस्कुराए जाओ।

आराध्य हो तुम भी ,तुम भी हो किसी के जिने की तमन्ना
दूसरो की काहे फिकर करते हो, प्रेरणाशोत होती है आलोचना .. ।
जिस इंसान ने मुसीबत ना देखी ,उसे बाकी है अभी ढंग से जिना
जिसने चुना फूलों का path  उसे य़ही पर स्व्रर्ग कहां से मिलना .. ।


सूख जाए य़े धरती तो य़ाद रहे, सावन फिर आएगा ।
मेघ आएंगे ,बरसा आएगी, खुशिय़ो से लदा रोँमाच आएगा ।
और लौट गय़ा सावन तो क्य़ा, नील गगन फिर लहराएगा ।
चंद्र होगा,सूर्य़ होगा,झीलमिलाते सितारों से आसमां फिर जगमगएगा ।

चला गया वक्त  य़ब तो ,किर कहां से लाओगे
ये लोग तुम्हारे है,असील प्रेम इन्ही मे किसी से पाओगे...
ना दोलत देगी वो शुकून,ना किसी और चीज.से भरमाओगे..
शुकून मिलेगा तो बस इस दिल की गहराई में...ये पल फिर कहां से लाओगे


हर्ष भरो ,उल्लास भरो जीवन में ,असीम आनंद उठाए जाओ
य़े जिंदगी है रस भरी  , तुम मन्द-मन्द मुस्कुराए जाओ 


Relationship is more to be actioned rather than just talks.

वडोदरा से मुंबई की यात्रा के दौरान मेरी मुलाकात एक बुजुर्ग व्यक्ति हिरणभा परमार से हुई। वह अकेले सफर कर रहे थे। उन्होंने मुझसे अपने फोन में ...